Written by James Worthington
Lifting people isn’t anything new for Nicky Banger, he was used to the thousands of Saints fans leaping up when he scored at The Dell as he lived his boyhood dream playing for Southampton.
But just years later after being forced into retirement, he found himself struggling to lift his disabled daughter out of her aeroplane seat and carry her to the closest toilet.
For the former striker and current CEO of The Knights Foundation, transitioning from bringing joy to football fans to changing the lives of disabled children has been a difficult journey.
A devoted husband and father of two, Banger’s career as an ex-professional first division footballer transformed into his current position as CEO of the Knights Foundation, a charitable organisation that successfully aims to help families with special needs children and give them the opportunities that many have been unable to afford.
The reason for Banger’s passion and determination to see the foundation succeed is due to his first hand experience as both a driven worker and loving father.

(Photograph: The Knights Foundation Twitter)
“My daughter Sophia was born three months premature and nearly died, later on she was diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy,” explained the ex Saints striker.
“To cut a long story short when I decided to walk away from football I had some business experience so I was looking at how I could generate business and raise money for something I care about.
“I wanted to help children with special needs, to buy positive equipment, take children out on sensory experiences because they don’t understand what it feels like to have the hairs stand up on the back of their necks.
“I wanted to take them on a speed boat or a motor bike or do something that is out of their comfort zone and I wanted to give them that incredible feeling.”
As well as helping raise money to support children with disabilities and their families, Banger is also passionate about the future careers of those he supports.
“I wanted to help children with special needs get into work placements because all of the things that I talk about that are work related, I know that my daughter will have to do eventually.
“I want to help disabled kids get apprentices, and figure out how to get them real jobs where they get paid in work placements, but for that you have to change the way that business people look at disabled people.
“You have to look at accessibility for toilets, you have to change their mind sets and ask why wouldn’t they employ a disabled person when there are so many benefits of doing that.
Whilst many ex-professional footballers may be enjoying their retirement in luxury hotel resorts and travelling around the world with ease, Banger has learnt that travelling for families with a disabled child is far from luxurious.
“More importantly, whenever I wanted to go on holiday with my family, whenever we wanted to go to France or Spain, I was always getting charged a hell of a lot more money than if I was taking abled kids.
“It started to annoy me that if I wanted to go away for a week and rent a mobile home in Lymington or New Milton the price would go up by either double or triple the original price.
“If I wanted to go for an accessible facility, I would always be put in the worst part of the area of where I wanted to go away, it was almost like you were tucked away in the corner.
“You get companies and businesses charging excessive money for families with children with disabilities to go on holiday, if anything they should be making it cheaper not more expensive.
“These families have had a tough life already and all they’re doing is making it harder.

(Photograph: The Knights Foundation Twitter)
“I went on holiday to Florida and I had to carry my seven year old daughter up the stairs, through the aisle sit her down and when she needed to go to the toilet I had to carry her to it on a moving aeroplane.
“Anyone who has been on an aeroplane will tell you that you can just about swing a cat in that space let alone get in there on your own. Well imagine if you’ve got a little disabled girl and you need to get in that same toilet to help, it’s impossible.
“This started giving me a negative experience about holidays and I started thinking that I didn’t want to go on holiday any more, especially when I went to America because when I needed to rent a car I had to rent the bigger and more expensive car because we needed a wheelchair for my daughter. So in the end going on holiday just added more pressure because you had to spend more and companies wouldn’t help or subsidise you.”
As the United Kingdom is home to over 13.9 million disabled people with ten per cent of them being children, Banger decided to act on the poor support for families with disabilities who struggle to enjoy a holiday.
“I decided to do is that The Knights Foundation are buying a lodge for a quarter of one million pounds and its located in a place called Shawfield by New Milton.
“I’m buying it and I’m going to give it to families who have kids with disabilities, they’ll either pay a subsidies for them to go there or we’ll give it to them for free.
“It’s one of the newest, most exciting lodges in the area, you’re not tucked away in the corner, you’re right at the front where everybody wants to be.
“It’s going to give them the best experience, they’ll get the spa, the golf they’ll have absolutely everything. The worst scenario is that they have to pay a donation which is heavily subsidised or they go for free.”
Focusing on children with disabilities is important however Banger and The Knights Foundation aim to focus on caring for the entire family and supporting those who struggle with the pressure he has experienced personally.
“I do all of this because I’m passionate about helping families with disabilities but I also want to look after the siblings of children with disabilities because sometimes they get left out because of all the focus and stress that goes around the disabled child.
“Divorce rates are up with parents of a disabled child and we’ve found that dads tend to walk away because they can’t handle it as it’s a very, very stressful scenario.
“When talking about families being affected by disability it’s like a car crash happening, you don’t know its going to happen and it will change your life but you don’t predict that you’re going to have a car crash so that’s the scenario that changes your thought process.”
As well as learning from a financial perspective of the struggles families with a special needs child can cause, Banger’s football connections have allowed The Knights Foundation to work with many people close to their families and the community of Hampshire.
Banger will be the first to admit the importance of his footballing career for the success of The Knights Foundation as his transition from scoring goals at the Dell to retiring at Eastleigh Football Club allowed him to continue living his dream.

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Born in Southampton and raised as a devoted Saints supporter, Banger was fortunate enough to experience his boy-hood dream at the young age of 16 as he joined the Southampton youth academy in 1987. He would eventually go on to mark his debut for the Saints at the age of 18.
Playing against Rochdale in 1990, the away side must have thought themselves lucky to be lining up against a 5ft 8inch teenager, still nervous in front of a Saints crowd 6,754 strong. Despite his age, Banger soon demonstrated why he had forced his way into the first team by netting a hat-trick on his debut and continuing to create his image as a driven and determined individual.
“It became like a goldfish bowl for me” described by Banger who even 27 years later still remembers his debut vividly.
“I felt pressure because I grew up, lived and went to school in Southampton and then making your debut and scoring a hat-trick put a little bit more pressure on me due to the expectation.
“However I have never been more proud of playing for the club that I loved.
“I remember being 13 years old and seeing Kevin Keegan at Trojans training and he was my hero, so to go one and play like he did at The Dell with the likes of Alan Shearer and score a hat-trick on my debut, it was something that I was immensely proud of.”
As Banger’s career saw him leave his boy-hood club in 1994 for Oldham Athletic followed by several moves to other teams based in the South of England, his business acumen and valuable connections would become an immensely useful tool during the start of The Knights Foundation.
“When I set this up three years ago with nothing in 2016, I basically went on a whim and spoke to the business people that I’d known for so long.
“But you start talking to fathers from a business perspective rather than from a football perspective because football is very demographic, if you live in Southampton you support the Saints, if you live in Portsmouth you support Pompey but if you speak to a father about his child it doesn’t matter where he’s from.
“I didn’t want the foundation to be a charity where I was filling it with volunteers, I wanted to run it as a proper business.
“I wanted to use my football contacts to raise some awareness, generate revenue and do events, which I’ve done with Michelle Keegan, Sir Geoff Hurst, Gordon Banks, Ray Clemence, Peter Shilton, Matt Le Tissier, James Beattie and Graeme Souness just to name but a few.

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“This was really useful because people wanted to see these famous individuals but it also allowed us to connect families to all these businesses and educations so we can buy positive equipment.”
“The funny thing is I never aimed to go into business when I was young but here I am, after using the commercial experience and skills I needed to learn to now be at the age of 45 and be the CEO of a foundation.”
Since taking his position as CEO, The Knights Foundation has raised over £500,000 for families who struggle with disabilities and Banger is focused on achieving his one million pound mark.
Evidently displaying his passion and determination when he focuses on the organisation, Banger will be hoping to not only continue raising money but to raise the joy for disabled families across the country.




